Recruiting Tips

How to Make the Most of an Unofficial College Soccer Visit

By Inkbound 7 min read

Everything you need to know about unofficial visits for college soccer recruiting. What to expect, what to ask, and how to leave a lasting impression.

An unofficial visit is one of the most important steps in the recruiting process. It is your chance to see the school, meet the coaches, and determine if this is where you want to spend the next four years.

What is an Unofficial Visit?

An unofficial visit is a campus visit that you arrange and pay for yourself. Unlike official visits (which the school pays for), you can take unlimited unofficial visits at any time during high school.

Before the Visit

Email the coach 3 to 4 weeks in advance. Let them know you are planning to visit and ask if they are available to meet. Include your highlight video link and a brief introduction.

Research the school thoroughly. Know their recent season record, playing style, roster size, and any recent news about the program. Coaches are impressed by players who have done their homework.

Prepare questions. Have a list of 8 to 10 thoughtful questions ready. Generic questions (like "how many players are on the team") can be found online. Ask questions that show genuine interest and intelligence.

Questions to Ask the Coach

  • What is your coaching philosophy for player development?
  • What does a typical week look like during season vs off season?
  • How do you see someone with my playing style fitting into your system?
  • What does the academic support structure look like for athletes?
  • What are your expectations for freshmen?
  • How do you handle playing time decisions?
  • What are the team's goals for the next few years?
  • Can I speak with a current player about their experience?

Questions to Ask Current Players

If you get the chance to speak with current players (and you should ask for this), consider asking:

  • What surprised you most about playing here?
  • How would you describe the team culture?
  • What is the coaching staff like day to day?
  • How do you balance academics and soccer?
  • Would you choose this school again?

During the Visit

Be yourself but be professional. Dress presentably (you do not need a suit, but avoid ratty shorts). Make eye contact, give a firm handshake, and engage in conversation.

Take notes after each visit. Your impressions will blur together after visiting multiple schools. Write down what you liked, what concerned you, and how the visit made you feel.

Walk the campus beyond the athletic facilities. Visit the dining hall, dorms, academic buildings, and student center. You are choosing a college, not just a soccer team.

Attend a game or practice if possible. Watching the team in action tells you more than any brochure.

After the Visit

Send a thank you email within 24 hours. Reference something specific from your conversation. This is not optional; it is expected.

Update your parents or family. Discuss your impressions honestly. Sometimes the school you expected to love is not the right fit, and that is okay.

Red Flags During a Visit

  • Coach is dismissive or disinterested
  • Players seem unhappy or avoid eye contact
  • Facilities are significantly worse than advertised
  • Coach makes promises that seem too good to be true
  • No opportunity to speak with current players

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